Reader Submission
She didn’t write to us about a dramatic change.
She wrote because one small decision made her realize how deeply she had been living someone else’s rules.
The following is her story. Lightly edited, shared with permission.
I grew up watching my mother move quietly through the world.
She never complained about how she looked. She also never enjoyed it.
Hair was something to be kept neat. Clothes were something to be practical. Looking nice was never the point. Getting things done was.
She used to say, “There are more important things than appearance.
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